Ex Has Unstable Life

[stealth2]

OP - I would seriously consider speaking with another lawyer about your situation - yours seems to be leading you down a garden path.

 

[Ohiogal]

Have you actually read what you wrote here? You ARE denying part of his visits. It's that simple.

You're blinded by naivete, and you need a reality check. You're not "golden". You are simply unable to comprehend that YOU are part of this mess and YOU can actually end up being the NCP. I don't know if it's willful ignorance, but you need to change your mindset and change it FAST.

FOCUS. And please, drop the martyr act. It's not a good look.

So dad should take the children for the day and not return them until his time is over -- the court ordered time. Mom can't do much about it.

 

[FrustratedMom16]

Just back on this forum for another topic and thought I would update. He lost the kids. Lost overnights and I got full custody. For ppl running around saying poor ppl have rights yada yada, well a judge knows that what they kind of see is only SOME. Judge was right too. Not long after he was evicted again, his mother ditched him for good, and he ended up in rehab which would help explain his inability to get it together. That's why, that's why you take kids out of situations like his. Awful things may have befallen my children had I not taken action. Red flags are just warnings. Worse things are usually happening.

 

[stealth2]

Just back on this forum for another topic and thought I would update. He lost the kids. Lost overnights and I got full custody. For ppl running around saying poor ppl have rights yada yada, well a judge knows that what they kind of see is only SOME. Judge was right too. Not long after he was evicted again, his mother ditched him for good, and he ended up in rehab which would help explain his inability to get it together. That's why, that's why you take kids out of situations like his. Awful things may have befallen my children had I not taken action. Red flags are just warnings. Worse things are usually happening.

I see a year and a half+ has not improved your attitude or temperament.

 

[LdiJ]

I see a year and a half+ has not improved your attitude or temperament.

Yes but apparently our advice was also dead wrong. I for one think that we should acknowledge that.

 

[stealth2]

Yes but apparently our advice was also dead wrong. I for one think that we should acknowledge that.

Perhaps, partially. I, personally, don't entertain the position that the poor have no rights, as OP seems to continue to exhort. Read her current "problem".

 

[LdiJ]

Perhaps, partially. I, personally, don't entertain the position that the poor have no rights, as OP seems to continue to exhort. Read her current "problem".

I also told her that I didn't think that the case would go anywhere. I gave different reasons than you did but the end advice was the same. I was obviously wrong and I feel that I must acknowledge that, whether I am fond of the poster or not.

 

[Just Blue]

I see a year and a half+ has not improved your attitude or temperament.

Look at her latest thread.

 

[Ohiogal]

I don’t see where we were wrong. Things changed after she posted and we weren’t provided that info. Dad being homeless with no place to stay would prevent overnights and the fact that he went to rehab is also an issue... neither of which she had mentioned