Washington State
I need help;
In short I'm an Americanized Dutch ex-citizen(don't have Dutch citizenship anymore) and joined custody over both my children who reside with me.
The father doesn't follow parenting plan and basicly uses the joined custody as a tool to control things.
I don't know where he lives but he wants to see the children f. e. and yes I let him since it affects the children if I wouldn't, but the main reason I need help;
The father now refuses to sign documentation for my children so I can obtain new passports. This is a right he tried to stop before during the divorce..but failed.
I never kidnapped my children or anything and I have the right to take them out of the country for 2 weeks to visit relatives etc. All my relatives still live in Europe and we have no family here.
This was granted to me during the negotiations.
I tried to reason with him but he threatens to stop me at the border etc. etc.
I have little money and frankly no clue what to do anymore. The joined custody is and has been a means to control me and that's really it.
I need some guidance in how to get this resolved one way or another without it costing me an arm and a leg. I work 7 days a week, can't afford medical, can't even afford to take my children out of the country for that matter but I need the control gone.
In case I have a family emergency I'm not even sure what to do. I know my ex-husband won't step in to help out and I can't take my children with me.
I moved here to stay with my children, endured numerous threats of deportation, acquired my citizenship behind my ex-husbands back since he didn't want me to have it since he would lose some control and the story goes on and on.
To clarify; I am not feeling sorry for myself and am very matter of fact overall but I'm dealing with a controlling person who has money and won't stop abusing his control. He knows I can't afford to go back to court and fight with him for months to come.. something I'm sure he will aim for.
Can someone guide me to someone who is going to be reasonable in helping me out.. I truly need things changed.
I live in Pierce County Washington State.
I need help;
In short I'm an Americanized Dutch ex-citizen(don't have Dutch citizenship anymore) and joined custody over both my children who reside with me.
The father doesn't follow parenting plan and basicly uses the joined custody as a tool to control things.
I don't know where he lives but he wants to see the children f. e. and yes I let him since it affects the children if I wouldn't, but the main reason I need help;
The father now refuses to sign documentation for my children so I can obtain new passports. This is a right he tried to stop before during the divorce..but failed.
I never kidnapped my children or anything and I have the right to take them out of the country for 2 weeks to visit relatives etc. All my relatives still live in Europe and we have no family here.
This was granted to me during the negotiations.
I tried to reason with him but he threatens to stop me at the border etc. etc.
I have little money and frankly no clue what to do anymore. The joined custody is and has been a means to control me and that's really it.
I need some guidance in how to get this resolved one way or another without it costing me an arm and a leg. I work 7 days a week, can't afford medical, can't even afford to take my children out of the country for that matter but I need the control gone.
In case I have a family emergency I'm not even sure what to do. I know my ex-husband won't step in to help out and I can't take my children with me.
I moved here to stay with my children, endured numerous threats of deportation, acquired my citizenship behind my ex-husbands back since he didn't want me to have it since he would lose some control and the story goes on and on.
To clarify; I am not feeling sorry for myself and am very matter of fact overall but I'm dealing with a controlling person who has money and won't stop abusing his control. He knows I can't afford to go back to court and fight with him for months to come.. something I'm sure he will aim for.
Can someone guide me to someone who is going to be reasonable in helping me out.. I truly need things changed.
I live in Pierce County Washington State.