What is the name of your state? Wisconsin
My ex husband was awarded a temporary ex parte order granting him full legal custody, supervised visitation for me, for 60 days while I was in the hospital (5 days)(nervous breakdown) no notice had been given about the hearing and my testimony was never heard- i wasn't there. It has now been almost eight months. I have battled with my own lawyer to address the temporary order or at least get the supervision dropped, I have spoken with the guardian and provided all necessary medical records, still to no avail. The gaurdian ad litem actually said to me " oh...yeah...we should get that back on the active pile" grrrr! we had already been involved in amending our original custody arrangement when all this occured (joint leagal custody, physical placement with me), ex never took advantage of his visitations, my son barely saw his dad for 7 years. How can they let a temporary order with a deadline go on indefinitely like this? next week is our big court date, I am concerned that this temporary order will be weighing too heavily on the judges mind for him to be able to see that I have provided for and cared for and loved this beautiful child by myself for all of his life without incident, I provided a very good quality of life for my son filled with many opportunities his dad would be too lazy to offer him. Is it likely because of my breakdown and temporary order for the judge to let my son remain in one of the slummiest trailer courts in the area, with a convicted drug dealer for a step mother, and most of ex's associate's have convictions as well? How can I convey to the judge that one breakdown does not mean I am a horrible mother? I have really been being treated as if I'm Charles Manson's sister, it is so insulting and hurtful. Any help or advice at all would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you
My ex husband was awarded a temporary ex parte order granting him full legal custody, supervised visitation for me, for 60 days while I was in the hospital (5 days)(nervous breakdown) no notice had been given about the hearing and my testimony was never heard- i wasn't there. It has now been almost eight months. I have battled with my own lawyer to address the temporary order or at least get the supervision dropped, I have spoken with the guardian and provided all necessary medical records, still to no avail. The gaurdian ad litem actually said to me " oh...yeah...we should get that back on the active pile" grrrr! we had already been involved in amending our original custody arrangement when all this occured (joint leagal custody, physical placement with me), ex never took advantage of his visitations, my son barely saw his dad for 7 years. How can they let a temporary order with a deadline go on indefinitely like this? next week is our big court date, I am concerned that this temporary order will be weighing too heavily on the judges mind for him to be able to see that I have provided for and cared for and loved this beautiful child by myself for all of his life without incident, I provided a very good quality of life for my son filled with many opportunities his dad would be too lazy to offer him. Is it likely because of my breakdown and temporary order for the judge to let my son remain in one of the slummiest trailer courts in the area, with a convicted drug dealer for a step mother, and most of ex's associate's have convictions as well? How can I convey to the judge that one breakdown does not mean I am a horrible mother? I have really been being treated as if I'm Charles Manson's sister, it is so insulting and hurtful. Any help or advice at all would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you
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