paintedlove
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Missouri
In advance, thanks for everyones help with my questions! I will try to be as clear as I can with my situation. I'm not sure if its appropriate to ask more than one question in this thread, so I apologize if it isnt.
In 2008, I (Mother) was granted sole physical & legal custody of my daughter. My ex is the non custodial parent with exception to specific visitation rights. A. Weekends: Alternating weekends, and the right to make substitute arrangements in case of his conflicting military schedule. B. Military Leave: If he is away on military leave, his parents may exercise his visitation. C. Holidays: (we alternate with the years) D.Summer Visitation: He gets two, two week time periods.
The only kind of support required of him, is that he pay for her health insurance, and what it doesnt cover, we split 50/50. (p.s. there was 6 months that didnt carry any)
I dont know if this bares any relavance, but we were never married. We had two daughters together, and while we were going through a seperation (before any court) we tried to share the girls equally. While the girls were in his care one night, my youngest daughter died. The autopsy said that she was suffocated due to bed-sharing. This thus brought on our custody battle over our oldest daughter.
I tried to get "complete" custody, with out allowing him any visitation at all. That fell through. He wanted joint. I then tried for (what i was granted) plus child support. He was a no go. Then I said that I would drop all child support requests if he would just go with my proposal. He then agreed, and the rest if mostly above.. with exceptions to other details (regarding schools, telephone access, good faith, relocation, etc)
Now to my questions!... All of a sudden today he is threatening to take me back to court unless I give him more time with her. What kind of situations would I face? Can he really petition this court order, after he already agreed & signed on it in 2008? What if he was to serve me these papers while he had our daughter, and it was my time to pick her up.. could he refuse to give her to me until the court hearing?
Even though I have hard feelings towards this man, and his current wife... I dont want to refuse more time with him if my daughter wants to do so. I want her to make her own mind up about her father. So if I started to schedule more time for him to see her, in the future would it hurt me if we happened to go back to court? I've heard it may.
Any kind of help or insight I can receive would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!
In advance, thanks for everyones help with my questions! I will try to be as clear as I can with my situation. I'm not sure if its appropriate to ask more than one question in this thread, so I apologize if it isnt.
In 2008, I (Mother) was granted sole physical & legal custody of my daughter. My ex is the non custodial parent with exception to specific visitation rights. A. Weekends: Alternating weekends, and the right to make substitute arrangements in case of his conflicting military schedule. B. Military Leave: If he is away on military leave, his parents may exercise his visitation. C. Holidays: (we alternate with the years) D.Summer Visitation: He gets two, two week time periods.
The only kind of support required of him, is that he pay for her health insurance, and what it doesnt cover, we split 50/50. (p.s. there was 6 months that didnt carry any)
I dont know if this bares any relavance, but we were never married. We had two daughters together, and while we were going through a seperation (before any court) we tried to share the girls equally. While the girls were in his care one night, my youngest daughter died. The autopsy said that she was suffocated due to bed-sharing. This thus brought on our custody battle over our oldest daughter.
I tried to get "complete" custody, with out allowing him any visitation at all. That fell through. He wanted joint. I then tried for (what i was granted) plus child support. He was a no go. Then I said that I would drop all child support requests if he would just go with my proposal. He then agreed, and the rest if mostly above.. with exceptions to other details (regarding schools, telephone access, good faith, relocation, etc)
Now to my questions!... All of a sudden today he is threatening to take me back to court unless I give him more time with her. What kind of situations would I face? Can he really petition this court order, after he already agreed & signed on it in 2008? What if he was to serve me these papers while he had our daughter, and it was my time to pick her up.. could he refuse to give her to me until the court hearing?
Even though I have hard feelings towards this man, and his current wife... I dont want to refuse more time with him if my daughter wants to do so. I want her to make her own mind up about her father. So if I started to schedule more time for him to see her, in the future would it hurt me if we happened to go back to court? I've heard it may.
Any kind of help or insight I can receive would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!