judgedanelle
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NJ
My ex-husband is having surgery an during his hospital and after during recovery he will be unable to drive. We live in the same town, are divorced 10 years, have a 14 year old daughter with shared custody and he has always transported her back and forth for his time with her. During the past 10 years he has made physical threats to me and others associated with me, trespassed on my property and tried his hardest to turn our daughter against me. She see all this and recently said she was tired of it and while not yet willing to speak up about it to him would like to spend more time at my home is he is OK with it without it being a fight.
Apparently she is unhappy with the fact that he expects her to take care of him when she is there. For a while he had custody of his son from another relationship and she was expected to care for him as well.
I do not want to go near his home anytime he is there as the last time I dropped our daughter off he opened my passenger door, grabbed my keys out of the ignition and when I started to call the police he threw them at me. I have managed this relationship by simply avoiding his as I have felt a restraining order would be harsh. I want to know if I am in any way obligated to transport our daughter to the hospital or to his home for his time with her or can I simply say I am unavailable and it is his situation to resolve.
My ex-husband is having surgery an during his hospital and after during recovery he will be unable to drive. We live in the same town, are divorced 10 years, have a 14 year old daughter with shared custody and he has always transported her back and forth for his time with her. During the past 10 years he has made physical threats to me and others associated with me, trespassed on my property and tried his hardest to turn our daughter against me. She see all this and recently said she was tired of it and while not yet willing to speak up about it to him would like to spend more time at my home is he is OK with it without it being a fight.
Apparently she is unhappy with the fact that he expects her to take care of him when she is there. For a while he had custody of his son from another relationship and she was expected to care for him as well.
I do not want to go near his home anytime he is there as the last time I dropped our daughter off he opened my passenger door, grabbed my keys out of the ignition and when I started to call the police he threw them at me. I have managed this relationship by simply avoiding his as I have felt a restraining order would be harsh. I want to know if I am in any way obligated to transport our daughter to the hospital or to his home for his time with her or can I simply say I am unavailable and it is his situation to resolve.