They are not supposed to talk bad about me and my husband to her. So yes they shouldn't talk about something with her without me knowing about it, especially because I am her mother and I should know what is being told to my daughter.
You are all wrong. You can not dictate what other people talk to your daughter about. PERIOD
When she tells my daughter stuff like college it makes me look bad because then my daughter asks me questions about what she said and I don't know how to answer her.
Well then maybe you should encourage your daughter to talk to her dads girlfriend about it, someone who knows. Instead of deciding since you dont know, she shouldn't either.
And Ohiogal I know I didn't always make good decisions but at least I have learned from my mistakes and got married. He is still sleeping around with some girl he's not married to! What kind of example is that?
That is the most hypocritical thing I have ever heard. Maybe you should try to teach your daughter not to judge people that way, since you should be judged too.
You are totally jealous of your ex's relationship. Its obvious to us, and the judge is going to see it too. Nevemind the multiple violations of the court order and the alienation that is an extreme No NO. Please get yourself an extremely expensive lawyer to defend you because you are going to need it.
You need to learn you are not queen of the world and I hope your Ex gets full custody, and you get supervised visits.
Now, can we lock this thread?