What is the name of your state? Mississippi
My husband was divorced from his ex last April. He was given Joint legal custody with visitation and the 8 year old son stays with her. It is stated in the divorce papers that no one that isn't blood related can be in the home while the child is present from the hours of 10pm-8am. However, we were supposed to get his son this afternoon to spend the night (it was agreed upon) due to next sunday being Mother's day and she would want to have their son. He tried to call several times to find out where his son was, as the day was getting late. She never would answer the phone. He called again about at 8:21pm and she had cut off her cell phone. He called the house phone and it would just ring. This has been happening a lot lately. She hinders phone contact. We later went to eat and on the way home drove past her home. We felt we had a legitimate reason to drive past the home since we never got a call back and he was supposed to get him tonight.
There was another vehicle sitting in the drive, by now it was 10:20 pm. This vehicle does not belong to any relatives that he is aware of. The mother has a habit of thinking that she can get away with anything. She constantly threatens to do all kinds of things...
So our Question is: How do we go about proving that she is breaking court order? We would like for his son to be with us.
She has also stated ( honestly Bragged) that she is pregnant for 2nd time in 7 months and that the father works out of town during the week, so it makes sense that he would be there on a sunday night.
She has been reminded that she couldn't have men over after 10pm Since she is not married, but she stated that it (the court order) was no longer in effect because he and I are married now. That the court order meant nothing to do with her and voided that clause in the papers.
My husband's 8 year old has said that "Mom has a lot of boyfriend's" He only knows a few of them. We don't push for answers, he pretty much just says stuff randomly. This is when she was reminded of the clause.
My husband is not nor has he ever been late on child support. He even paid when he wasn't "court ordered" to pay to avoid back child support because she was dragging the process out. He loves his son and would never want him to be without.
The 8 year old said last sunday to the both us in the car, "Mom says all the time you don't want me." Which is infuriating. Nothing is further from the truth. We basically have to detox his son and reassure him that we want and love him. It's crazy!!!
Please any advice would be helpful!!!
This isn't a case of "bad dad" or "Dead beat dad" at all. I wouldn't want anything to do with a man that was!!What is the name of your state?
My husband was divorced from his ex last April. He was given Joint legal custody with visitation and the 8 year old son stays with her. It is stated in the divorce papers that no one that isn't blood related can be in the home while the child is present from the hours of 10pm-8am. However, we were supposed to get his son this afternoon to spend the night (it was agreed upon) due to next sunday being Mother's day and she would want to have their son. He tried to call several times to find out where his son was, as the day was getting late. She never would answer the phone. He called again about at 8:21pm and she had cut off her cell phone. He called the house phone and it would just ring. This has been happening a lot lately. She hinders phone contact. We later went to eat and on the way home drove past her home. We felt we had a legitimate reason to drive past the home since we never got a call back and he was supposed to get him tonight.
There was another vehicle sitting in the drive, by now it was 10:20 pm. This vehicle does not belong to any relatives that he is aware of. The mother has a habit of thinking that she can get away with anything. She constantly threatens to do all kinds of things...
So our Question is: How do we go about proving that she is breaking court order? We would like for his son to be with us.
She has also stated ( honestly Bragged) that she is pregnant for 2nd time in 7 months and that the father works out of town during the week, so it makes sense that he would be there on a sunday night.
She has been reminded that she couldn't have men over after 10pm Since she is not married, but she stated that it (the court order) was no longer in effect because he and I are married now. That the court order meant nothing to do with her and voided that clause in the papers.
My husband's 8 year old has said that "Mom has a lot of boyfriend's" He only knows a few of them. We don't push for answers, he pretty much just says stuff randomly. This is when she was reminded of the clause.
My husband is not nor has he ever been late on child support. He even paid when he wasn't "court ordered" to pay to avoid back child support because she was dragging the process out. He loves his son and would never want him to be without.
The 8 year old said last sunday to the both us in the car, "Mom says all the time you don't want me." Which is infuriating. Nothing is further from the truth. We basically have to detox his son and reassure him that we want and love him. It's crazy!!!
Please any advice would be helpful!!!
This isn't a case of "bad dad" or "Dead beat dad" at all. I wouldn't want anything to do with a man that was!!What is the name of your state?