What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Oregon
My ex-wife (sole physical, joint legal of 2 children) is planning on moving back to her hometown in the southeast US. She had planned on moving at Christmas, but says her training was moved up. She's now moving in 3 weeks. She gave both children the option to stay with her partner, or go with her as it's in the middle of the school year. My son is in high school, my daughter middle school. My son elected to stay behind, and my daughter to go with her.
I do not want to block the move, as they'll be much closer to us. She'll be around family, and she hasn't had a stable personal/professional life since moving to Oregon. She is romantically involved with new people every 2-3 months, who move in right away.
She says since she has sole physical custody, I have no say in whether my son goes with her or stays behind with her on again, off again partner. I am incredibly uncomfortable with the situation. I have never met her partner, I have concerns about what happens to my son if they break up during that time.
My question is - is there any way I could be granted temporary custody? I understand it's harder to for my son - in high school - to move with his classes, and her situation with the training for the job getting moved up (same company - transferring locations, not a large say in the training). I would take an 8 week leave of absence and move to their town. When I voiced this option, she informed me my son would be staying with her girlfriend, and I would only be able to see him based on our current visitation arrangement.
My wife and I had planned a trip out there, coincidentally, she's now leaving the same weekend we were going to be there, so we won't be able to spend time with either kid.
My ex-wife (sole physical, joint legal of 2 children) is planning on moving back to her hometown in the southeast US. She had planned on moving at Christmas, but says her training was moved up. She's now moving in 3 weeks. She gave both children the option to stay with her partner, or go with her as it's in the middle of the school year. My son is in high school, my daughter middle school. My son elected to stay behind, and my daughter to go with her.
I do not want to block the move, as they'll be much closer to us. She'll be around family, and she hasn't had a stable personal/professional life since moving to Oregon. She is romantically involved with new people every 2-3 months, who move in right away.
She says since she has sole physical custody, I have no say in whether my son goes with her or stays behind with her on again, off again partner. I am incredibly uncomfortable with the situation. I have never met her partner, I have concerns about what happens to my son if they break up during that time.
My question is - is there any way I could be granted temporary custody? I understand it's harder to for my son - in high school - to move with his classes, and her situation with the training for the job getting moved up (same company - transferring locations, not a large say in the training). I would take an 8 week leave of absence and move to their town. When I voiced this option, she informed me my son would be staying with her girlfriend, and I would only be able to see him based on our current visitation arrangement.
My wife and I had planned a trip out there, coincidentally, she's now leaving the same weekend we were going to be there, so we won't be able to spend time with either kid.