Tootersmom
Junior Member
I live in Dallas TX. My Ex-husband and I modified a possession order last year placing both my sons in his custody. Soon after, both of my sons began to share stories that alcohol and possibly drug use was impairing my husband when they were in his care. My older son had an issue with the law prior to that modification. Communicated to me and encouraged through his family, individual and probation meetings, my son was eventually removed from his custody and put in mine, at least until next year when he is off probation. Now, 5 dwi arrests later and pending incarceration...I told my ex husband I would like my younger son to come live with us as well. I believe it is in my younger sons best interest and would allow my exhusband to focus on what he needs to do to straighten his life up, if that is what he chooses and can do. The last few meetings between my older son and father were very heated. My sons therapists and probation officer believe he is thinking rationally and it be best he distance himself from his father. I suggested the therapist and probation officer meet with me, my son and his father. In this process, I hope we can work it out and heal their relationship, although I recognize my ex husband has a substantial addiction issue. I feel very anxious and worried for my younger son because he is still in my ex husbands care. I feel like the modification was not truly consentual because I was unaware of his ongoing alcohol addiction and the consequences are obvious with arrests and testimony from both my children. What can I do? School starts in 3 weeks an I'd like to enroll my younger son and have him in a safe environment where he can focus on school and his friends rather than his fathers addiction.
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