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I've been divorced for 10 years and our parenting plan is the standard Local Rule. My ex has lived in Washington since the divorce. In no way has the parenting plan been followed. I have extended kindness by offering time and offering to meet half way. The visits happen about twice a year, 3 -4 days based on childs comfort. Recently I had information that a guest in his house is on probation for a sex offense and order not to be around children 14 years and younger. Before agreeing to the visit, my ex assured me that this person would not be in contact with my 13 year old daughter. When she returned, she told me the person had been there every day. My question is, since the parenting plan has never been used, but not legally modified, if I choose to restrict the conditions of visitation and he pushes it to be heard in court, wouldn't his lack of interest and lack of common sense be considered?