What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? PA My ex-husband has a girlfriend and I think she is crossing the line. She wants to take my kids to events like her college reunion, the weddings of her friends and family, her family gatherings. I don't like it. Why doesn't she go have kids of her own. My kids are great kids and I think she wants people to think they are hers. My ex wants to take the kids to this woman's friend's wedding and I know they will be drinking. I'm thinking of going to court to try to stop this. This is a man who until this girlfiend came along skipped his visitation half the time. I had to fight with him to get him have anything to do with his kids. Now all the sudden this girlfriend comes along and he tries to act like he's this great dad. I'm sooo disgusted. He's using his kids to try to look like a good guy to his girlfriend. I don't want the girlfriend thinking my kids are hers and what if I go to court about her drinking? Maybe I could get her barred from being around the kids? She does get drunk sometimes, the kids tell me.