thespecialistkc
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Georgia
I have used the search function and believe I know the answer, but want to verify. CP and I have a clause in the parenting plan that states:
"Each parent acknowledges that as each child gets older each child will become more involved in school activities and other extra-curricular activities. In the event a child has any scheduled school or extra-curricular activities on a week-night or week-end when the non-custodial parent has parenting time the non-custodial parent shall use his/her best efforts to handle each child's transportation to and from these activities. The primary physical custodial parent furthermore shall use his/her best reasonable efforts to avoid scheduling such events on the time periods scheduled for the non-custodial parent, unless he/she has attempted to reasonably confer with the non-custodial parent. The non-custodial parent's consent to such activities shall not be unreasonably withheld."
Also, for what it is worth, we have joint decision making on extra-curricular activities, with CP having ultimate tiebreaker rights.
The issue is (of course), CP is signing up the eldest lil' specialist for sports year-round, and the littler lil' specialist is beginning the same pattern. I verbally agreed to pay for half of one extra-curricular sport per child per year (and will continue to do so). Personally I think that is enough given their ages (7 and 4), athletic prowess and injuries sustained thus far. As NCP, I do not believe I am required to facilitate all activities scheduled by CP, however it is the "best efforts" language that concerns me. Yes, I could make every single practice and game during every visitation period, resulting in some very late bed-times due to geographic locations of venues versus home, as well as spending much of my visitation at activities not of my choosing.
Given the language above, am I legally justified in declining to facilitate activities scheduled by CP during my visitation time without my consent? Or at least decline those in excess of the activity I agree to and help fund?
For the record I did object and expressed my concerns but was told by CP as the NCP without tiebreaker rights my objections were dismissed and I should do as instructed. Verbally, of course, but I think my next communication will be in email form, for record keeping.
Thanks.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
I have used the search function and believe I know the answer, but want to verify. CP and I have a clause in the parenting plan that states:
"Each parent acknowledges that as each child gets older each child will become more involved in school activities and other extra-curricular activities. In the event a child has any scheduled school or extra-curricular activities on a week-night or week-end when the non-custodial parent has parenting time the non-custodial parent shall use his/her best efforts to handle each child's transportation to and from these activities. The primary physical custodial parent furthermore shall use his/her best reasonable efforts to avoid scheduling such events on the time periods scheduled for the non-custodial parent, unless he/she has attempted to reasonably confer with the non-custodial parent. The non-custodial parent's consent to such activities shall not be unreasonably withheld."
Also, for what it is worth, we have joint decision making on extra-curricular activities, with CP having ultimate tiebreaker rights.
The issue is (of course), CP is signing up the eldest lil' specialist for sports year-round, and the littler lil' specialist is beginning the same pattern. I verbally agreed to pay for half of one extra-curricular sport per child per year (and will continue to do so). Personally I think that is enough given their ages (7 and 4), athletic prowess and injuries sustained thus far. As NCP, I do not believe I am required to facilitate all activities scheduled by CP, however it is the "best efforts" language that concerns me. Yes, I could make every single practice and game during every visitation period, resulting in some very late bed-times due to geographic locations of venues versus home, as well as spending much of my visitation at activities not of my choosing.
Given the language above, am I legally justified in declining to facilitate activities scheduled by CP during my visitation time without my consent? Or at least decline those in excess of the activity I agree to and help fund?
For the record I did object and expressed my concerns but was told by CP as the NCP without tiebreaker rights my objections were dismissed and I should do as instructed. Verbally, of course, but I think my next communication will be in email form, for record keeping.
Thanks.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?