ashleyj312
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Pennsylvania
Im 22 years old and i left my sons father over a year ago, we agreed not to go to court and that we would divide our time with our son equally, and whenever we werent working. It was fine and we never had a problem, after i lost my job i had our son 90% of the time. He rarely bothered to see him. I ended up having to move back in with him until i found another job, after i did i moved out and got a new apartment, things were fine and then he took him one weekend saying he would bring him back the following monday before he went to work. He never showed, I called and texted him several times and he would not answer me. I finally called the cops, and they said there was nothing they could do, so i kept calling him. He had me fined for harrassment. I didnt know what to do, and he told me if i tried taking him to court he would make sure i never saw my son again, I dont have a job right now but my fiance makes nearly 1000 dollars a week so i dont need to work right now. I also do not have a drivers license, and i have fines for driving without a license :/ He changed his phone number to keep me from contacting him, and kept me from him on his birthday and christmas, I dont do drugs, Ive never been arrested, but he seems 100% percent sure he will win full custody and wants his new girlfriend he met on facebook to adopt him. Ive started the process for taking him to court but im still scared he will win full custody, I dont want to keep him from our son at all, but i think its in his best interest for him to be with me most of the time, hes a good father but everything else comes first. He doesnt bathe him and in the past my son would scream anytime i tried to take him back to his father. I dont want to bring any of this in court because i have no proof and i dont want to badmouth him. Im wondering what kind of chances i have in court for primary ( not full) custody. Like i said i dont want to keep him from him, but i dont want him to be able to keep him from me and use him to hurt me anytime i make him mad. He to this day will not tell me why he did this. Im completely lost and confused
Im 22 years old and i left my sons father over a year ago, we agreed not to go to court and that we would divide our time with our son equally, and whenever we werent working. It was fine and we never had a problem, after i lost my job i had our son 90% of the time. He rarely bothered to see him. I ended up having to move back in with him until i found another job, after i did i moved out and got a new apartment, things were fine and then he took him one weekend saying he would bring him back the following monday before he went to work. He never showed, I called and texted him several times and he would not answer me. I finally called the cops, and they said there was nothing they could do, so i kept calling him. He had me fined for harrassment. I didnt know what to do, and he told me if i tried taking him to court he would make sure i never saw my son again, I dont have a job right now but my fiance makes nearly 1000 dollars a week so i dont need to work right now. I also do not have a drivers license, and i have fines for driving without a license :/ He changed his phone number to keep me from contacting him, and kept me from him on his birthday and christmas, I dont do drugs, Ive never been arrested, but he seems 100% percent sure he will win full custody and wants his new girlfriend he met on facebook to adopt him. Ive started the process for taking him to court but im still scared he will win full custody, I dont want to keep him from our son at all, but i think its in his best interest for him to be with me most of the time, hes a good father but everything else comes first. He doesnt bathe him and in the past my son would scream anytime i tried to take him back to his father. I dont want to bring any of this in court because i have no proof and i dont want to badmouth him. Im wondering what kind of chances i have in court for primary ( not full) custody. Like i said i dont want to keep him from him, but i dont want him to be able to keep him from me and use him to hurt me anytime i make him mad. He to this day will not tell me why he did this. Im completely lost and confused