Ex has visitations every other weekend and every other holiday. But for the past 4 years, he hasn't kept up with this schedule. He comes once a month or maybe even 1 every 2 months. Isn't he in contempt? What can I do about this legally? He says it's b/c he lives 4 hours away and his job requires him to work on weekends. Can the courts make him move back to our town where his child is?? Can I take away his visitations??