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kealohilani
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What is the name of your state? Hawaii
I have been divorved since 1996. During this time she has withheld him from me on 2 occassions, once for 2 months and more recently for 2 weeks. she has a TRO against her boyfriend (who is living with her and our son in a STUDIO APARTMENT) Our son has been having behavioral problems at school and is under counseling through the schools psycolgist. She leaves vulgar messages on my phone regarding everything under the sun. She constantly threatens to keep me away from my son for even longer periods of time.
My concern is ONLY for my sons physical and mental health. What she says to me, I could care less. What she says and does to and in front of my son is all I care about. The psycologist has said that OUR SON has talked to her about wanting to live with me, and about his mothers language and arguements and abuse. He has even told my girlfriend that he pretends to be asleep while his mother and boyfriend are "doing it"
We went to court yesterday and she was granted a continuance for 2 weeks. My attorney objected, but the judge wouldnt hear it. My son is suffering mentally and I would appreciate any advice or input you could give me. I am NOT trying to take him away, like she has done to me, I KNOW our son needs his mother, but I feel she needs to get some help, and my son needs TWO stable parents in his life more than ever. I feel he would be better living with me and having VERY reasonable visitations with his mother...Thank You.
Help needed in Hawaii
I have been divorved since 1996. During this time she has withheld him from me on 2 occassions, once for 2 months and more recently for 2 weeks. she has a TRO against her boyfriend (who is living with her and our son in a STUDIO APARTMENT) Our son has been having behavioral problems at school and is under counseling through the schools psycolgist. She leaves vulgar messages on my phone regarding everything under the sun. She constantly threatens to keep me away from my son for even longer periods of time.
My concern is ONLY for my sons physical and mental health. What she says to me, I could care less. What she says and does to and in front of my son is all I care about. The psycologist has said that OUR SON has talked to her about wanting to live with me, and about his mothers language and arguements and abuse. He has even told my girlfriend that he pretends to be asleep while his mother and boyfriend are "doing it"
We went to court yesterday and she was granted a continuance for 2 weeks. My attorney objected, but the judge wouldnt hear it. My son is suffering mentally and I would appreciate any advice or input you could give me. I am NOT trying to take him away, like she has done to me, I KNOW our son needs his mother, but I feel she needs to get some help, and my son needs TWO stable parents in his life more than ever. I feel he would be better living with me and having VERY reasonable visitations with his mother...Thank You.
Help needed in Hawaii