What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Texas
ok so i am asking this question for my fiance. He has a 7 year old daughter who at this time lives with us in our home, we have her enrolled in school and she does not see her biological mother. It has been a little over a year. And before that she saw her maybe 3 times for during 2 months she decided to come to see her. She has basiclly been in and out of her life since she left her at 9 months old with her father. My question is how can my fiance obtain sole custody. they have never gone to court. She recently called saying she was tired of being away from her daughter and she has a job now and wants to see her daughter. She would go put herself on child support. She does not want to take her away from us. She knows that her daughter thinks of me as her mother and even calls me mom. What should my fiance do? Should he let her see her just like that or does he need to hire an attorney? She has done this before only to see her a few times and disapear again. We really don't need the child support and I feel bad for her cause she has 3 other kids. But my fiance does not want his daughter confused and hurting cause her real mother decides she wants to see her every now and then. Please help. We are willing to hire an attorney but right now can not afford one. I just had a baby and got laid off at work. So we are trying to get use to having one source of income instead of 2. Thanks
PS I don't mind if my stepdaughter sees her mother, but I am the one who has to wipe the tears when she makes false promises to her. And frankly I am tired of it.
ok so i am asking this question for my fiance. He has a 7 year old daughter who at this time lives with us in our home, we have her enrolled in school and she does not see her biological mother. It has been a little over a year. And before that she saw her maybe 3 times for during 2 months she decided to come to see her. She has basiclly been in and out of her life since she left her at 9 months old with her father. My question is how can my fiance obtain sole custody. they have never gone to court. She recently called saying she was tired of being away from her daughter and she has a job now and wants to see her daughter. She would go put herself on child support. She does not want to take her away from us. She knows that her daughter thinks of me as her mother and even calls me mom. What should my fiance do? Should he let her see her just like that or does he need to hire an attorney? She has done this before only to see her a few times and disapear again. We really don't need the child support and I feel bad for her cause she has 3 other kids. But my fiance does not want his daughter confused and hurting cause her real mother decides she wants to see her every now and then. Please help. We are willing to hire an attorney but right now can not afford one. I just had a baby and got laid off at work. So we are trying to get use to having one source of income instead of 2. Thanks
PS I don't mind if my stepdaughter sees her mother, but I am the one who has to wipe the tears when she makes false promises to her. And frankly I am tired of it.