Father wants to trade child support for no custody rights.

[75sunshine]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? North carolina. I sought child support for my 18 month old son. Child support says he has to pay $735 a month. He says he can't afford that and if I'm willing to accept 450 that he will sign a paper and notorize it stating he will not seek any type of custody or visitation. He doesn't want anything to do with his son. He hasn't seen him but once since birth. He doesn't want to raise another child. But I I don't agree he'll take me to court and get visitation just to get me where I hurt. Would a motorized paper hold up in court?

 

[CTU]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? North carolina. I sought child support for my 18 month old son. Child support says he has to pay $735 a month. He says he can't afford that and if I'm willing to accept 450 that he will sign a paper and notorize it stating he will not seek any type of custody or visitation. He doesn't want anything to do with his son. He hasn't seen him but once since birth. He doesn't want to raise another child. But I I don't agree he'll take me to court and get visitation just to get me where I hurt. Would a motorized paper hold up in court?

Not in the slightest. Neither will a notarized paper.

It's illegal to buy and sell children in this country.

 

[75sunshine]

Not in the slightest. Neither will a notarized paper.

It's illegal to buy and sell children in this country.

If it did go to court. Will I have to hand him over for visitation even though he stated he did not want custody or visitation? I hate to send my child to a home where he isn't wanted. He would only be there so dad can get back at me for not accepting to reduce his child support?

 

[LdiJ]

If it did go to court. Will I have to hand him over for visitation even though he stated he did not want custody or visitation? I hate to send my child to a home where he isn't wanted. He would only be there so dad can get back at me for not accepting to reduce his child support?

If you are willing to sign off on reduced child support then let him give you the notarized paper to make him happy, you sign off on the child support reduction and leave it at that. As long as you are aware that if he changes his mind about visitation down the road he can file for visitation. You also can change your mind down the road and file for guideline child support.

Nothing regarding child custody/visitation/child support is ever so fixed as to be permanent.

 

[CTU]

If it did go to court. Will I have to hand him over for visitation even though he stated he did not want custody or visitation? I hate to send my child to a home where he isn't wanted. He would only be there so dad can get back at me for not accepting to reduce his child support?

And if he DID file for visitation, he WILL get visitation. It's not a "might" or a "could" - it's a "WILL".

 

[75sunshine]

If you are willing to sign off on reduced child support then let him give you the notarized paper to make him happy, you sign off on the child support reduction and leave it at that. As long as you are aware that if he changes his mind about visitation down the road he can file for visitation. You also can change your mind down the road and file for guideline child support.

Nothing regarding child custody/visitation/child support is ever so fixed as to be permanent.

Thank you for taking time in helping me in this matter.

 

[CTU]

Thank you for taking time in helping me in this matter.

Charmed, I'm sure.

 

[75sunshine]

If you are willing to sign off on reduced child support then let him give you the notarized paper to make him happy, you sign off on the child support reduction and leave it at that. As long as you are aware that if he changes his mind about visitation down the road he can file for visitation. You also can change your mind down the road and file for guideline child support.

Nothing regarding child custody/visitation/child support is ever so fixed as to be permanent.

Thank you for your advice.

 

[Just Blue]

Thank you for your advice.

You already said that. 2 posts above this.