What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? VA
I have been asking for advice to do with my daughter's father for several weeks now and now I need to ask about my son's father.
Daughter and son are on the same schedule, same type of barebones order. EOW and Wednesday evening visitation, no holiday schedule. So, because of a switch I made when I had pneumonia, Christmas weekend came on son's father's weekend. However, this is what our order specifically says EOW Friday from 6-9pm, Saturday 6-9pm and Sunday 10am-6pm. He doesn't have him for overnights on the weekend although I am flexible and the weekends typically follow this schedule, Friday 6-9pm (which I need to hang out a little over an hour from my home for 3 hours waiting for visitation to get over then make the long drive home) and I then bring him back to his father at 6pm Saturday and he spends the night with him until 6pm on Sunday.
So, on the Monday before Christmas Eve, the father sends me a text that states "I will ALLOW you to keep son until 10pm on Christmas Eve". Well, he only gets him until 9pm on Fridays anyhow so he doesn't get to "allow" me to do anything. I tell him "thanks, I will bring him to you at noon on Saturday". To which he then texts back saying that no I am to bring son to him at 10pm on Friday. I tell him that I refuse to discuss the issue further as that is my parenting time and I will bring him to him at noon which is 6 hours earlier than I am legally required to do so.
Yesterday, a deputy arrives on my doorstep with a criminal summons that states I am in contempt of our court order for what happened on Christmas Eve. I took a picture of our court order with the times highlighted and sent it to ex to ask how he was able to file for contempt when no contempt occurred, of course I haven't heard back from him yet.
This makes me mad, it is a waste of my time, I now have to be at court nearly 2 hours away at 9am on March 21. I will have an infant and my children will have to miss the day of school because I will have to leave the house before they can be dropped off at school. My husband will have to miss a day of work. This is the second time in a little over a year he has filed a false contempt case against me. He was severely reprimanded by the judge the last time but yet he goes and does it again. Is there any way to prevent this from reoccurring time and time again? When does the court step in and say, "enough is enough"?
I have been asking for advice to do with my daughter's father for several weeks now and now I need to ask about my son's father.
Daughter and son are on the same schedule, same type of barebones order. EOW and Wednesday evening visitation, no holiday schedule. So, because of a switch I made when I had pneumonia, Christmas weekend came on son's father's weekend. However, this is what our order specifically says EOW Friday from 6-9pm, Saturday 6-9pm and Sunday 10am-6pm. He doesn't have him for overnights on the weekend although I am flexible and the weekends typically follow this schedule, Friday 6-9pm (which I need to hang out a little over an hour from my home for 3 hours waiting for visitation to get over then make the long drive home) and I then bring him back to his father at 6pm Saturday and he spends the night with him until 6pm on Sunday.
So, on the Monday before Christmas Eve, the father sends me a text that states "I will ALLOW you to keep son until 10pm on Christmas Eve". Well, he only gets him until 9pm on Fridays anyhow so he doesn't get to "allow" me to do anything. I tell him "thanks, I will bring him to you at noon on Saturday". To which he then texts back saying that no I am to bring son to him at 10pm on Friday. I tell him that I refuse to discuss the issue further as that is my parenting time and I will bring him to him at noon which is 6 hours earlier than I am legally required to do so.
Yesterday, a deputy arrives on my doorstep with a criminal summons that states I am in contempt of our court order for what happened on Christmas Eve. I took a picture of our court order with the times highlighted and sent it to ex to ask how he was able to file for contempt when no contempt occurred, of course I haven't heard back from him yet.
This makes me mad, it is a waste of my time, I now have to be at court nearly 2 hours away at 9am on March 21. I will have an infant and my children will have to miss the day of school because I will have to leave the house before they can be dropped off at school. My husband will have to miss a day of work. This is the second time in a little over a year he has filed a false contempt case against me. He was severely reprimanded by the judge the last time but yet he goes and does it again. Is there any way to prevent this from reoccurring time and time again? When does the court step in and say, "enough is enough"?