What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NC
There is a question at the end of the story!
4 years ago, the "empty nest" syndrome hit me. My boys were soon going to be grown and I wouldnt hear "mama" every five minutes during the day. I decided to find something to do with my time, partly to keep myself busy, and to feel useful (I hate being idle). And, to be perfectly honest, I figured giving myself a task would help me cut the apron strings to my boys without driving them batty. I started by looking at my local community college for some classes I could take, possibly leading to working with children. I had been a nurse, but quit my job when my first son was born. I've been fortunate enough to be able to stay at home and devote my full time to raising my children, which is a large reason why "empty nest" hit me so hard.
In doing my research, I stumbled across a GAL website and became intrigued. I had started researching this, but when my nephew was born and all the drama started with him 9 ( he ended up living with me), I put the GAL thing on the back burner.
In the process of seeking custody, my lawyer gave me a pamphlet about my county's GAL division. She is a GAL attorney and felt that I would make a good GAL. She urged me to set up and appointment to speak with the GAL coordinator for my area, and after some careful consideration, I did so. I was so disappointed at my initial meeting. It seems that there is a shortage of GALs nationwide, but my area is desperate for volunteers. She gave me some very good information, and assured me that many mothers are able to maintain their home (and many a full time job) while successfully volunteering as a GAL. She was open, honest and bluntly direct in answering all my questions.
I decided to volunteer and returned for my initial interview. I passed the background check (no criminal record at all. The only time I've ever gotten in trouble was a parking ticket.) and was approved after a rather intensive interview. I was asked to agree to commit to each case for at least a full year, which I readily agreed to. My training should start in about 7 weeks!
I am excited at the prospect of helping children and rather intimidated at the responsibility I will have in advocating for them. I've seen it with my nephew, these kids end up in rotten rotten situations, often with parents that have no sense what-so-ever, and the kids are helpless in it all. It was appalling to find out how many children are in similar situations, and so many of them are in worse situations. One particular problem in my county is that many of the GAL volunteers have asked to NOT take on cases where sexual abuse was a factor and there were many many children and families in need.
I believe that I have seen that Ohiogal is a GAL attorney, and was wondering if there are other GALs on this forum as well? If so, do you have any suggestions that would make me a better volunteer once I complete my training? Is there anything that you wish you would have known going into this?
This is not something that I am taking lightly and any and all suggestions, advice and guidance would be sincerely appreciated.
There is a question at the end of the story!
4 years ago, the "empty nest" syndrome hit me. My boys were soon going to be grown and I wouldnt hear "mama" every five minutes during the day. I decided to find something to do with my time, partly to keep myself busy, and to feel useful (I hate being idle). And, to be perfectly honest, I figured giving myself a task would help me cut the apron strings to my boys without driving them batty. I started by looking at my local community college for some classes I could take, possibly leading to working with children. I had been a nurse, but quit my job when my first son was born. I've been fortunate enough to be able to stay at home and devote my full time to raising my children, which is a large reason why "empty nest" hit me so hard.
In doing my research, I stumbled across a GAL website and became intrigued. I had started researching this, but when my nephew was born and all the drama started with him 9 ( he ended up living with me), I put the GAL thing on the back burner.
In the process of seeking custody, my lawyer gave me a pamphlet about my county's GAL division. She is a GAL attorney and felt that I would make a good GAL. She urged me to set up and appointment to speak with the GAL coordinator for my area, and after some careful consideration, I did so. I was so disappointed at my initial meeting. It seems that there is a shortage of GALs nationwide, but my area is desperate for volunteers. She gave me some very good information, and assured me that many mothers are able to maintain their home (and many a full time job) while successfully volunteering as a GAL. She was open, honest and bluntly direct in answering all my questions.
I decided to volunteer and returned for my initial interview. I passed the background check (no criminal record at all. The only time I've ever gotten in trouble was a parking ticket.) and was approved after a rather intensive interview. I was asked to agree to commit to each case for at least a full year, which I readily agreed to. My training should start in about 7 weeks!
I am excited at the prospect of helping children and rather intimidated at the responsibility I will have in advocating for them. I've seen it with my nephew, these kids end up in rotten rotten situations, often with parents that have no sense what-so-ever, and the kids are helpless in it all. It was appalling to find out how many children are in similar situations, and so many of them are in worse situations. One particular problem in my county is that many of the GAL volunteers have asked to NOT take on cases where sexual abuse was a factor and there were many many children and families in need.
I believe that I have seen that Ohiogal is a GAL attorney, and was wondering if there are other GALs on this forum as well? If so, do you have any suggestions that would make me a better volunteer once I complete my training? Is there anything that you wish you would have known going into this?
This is not something that I am taking lightly and any and all suggestions, advice and guidance would be sincerely appreciated.