I was told I am supposed to post this here rather than start a new thread, sorry about that I wasn't aware of that rule
What is the law in regards to moving out of state with your child when there is no court order or custody agreement? My ex has not seen our child nor paid support for 16 months now. I did speak to him in May, where he had asked to come see our daughter for her birthday. I hesitantly agreed because I was worried that him popping in again after a year, and likely taking a long leave of absence afterwards, would be emotionally detrimental to her. He never showed up and I have not heard from him since, luckily I did not tell her he was planning to come. My husband and I have been wanting to move out of California for a while now, and decided that we should move forward with that plan. I had a consultation with a local family law attorney as I wanted to file for full custody beforehand and she advised to just go ahead and move because it does not sound like he has any interest in the child, or will bother to file anything at all. She said if we do file there would be a temporary order prohibiting us from leaving until the case was settled one way or another. Does this sound correct? I want to make sure I'm making the right move here. I did notify him two months ago of our intent to relocate, he did not respond. I know he did see the email because he later asked about her birthday, he just chose not to answer. I also asked that he sign a statement giving his permission for us to relocate, again he ignored that message.
Does it sound like I'm doing this in the right manner?