What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NJ. Please dont judge me I screwed things up enough. My wife is seeking custody of our 4 children ages (13,12,11,6). I have not lost my rights to my kids my judge has even given me unsupervised permission to be around them in the same house.I currently live with a cousin and her 4 small chlidren. I'm not a threat to my kids or the ones I live with. My children have exspressed their unhappieness in their home with my wife and her boyfriend. I could use some help in finding a way that this custody judge doesn't take my rights away. Is their any case law out their that can help me. Thank You for reading my post.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?