allright im back.. sorry i havent been on in a couple days.
but yes i have had an attorney since i knew i was going to try to get full custody. then she came back with an emergency ex parte.
which basically made us have an earlier hearing just for a judge to hear her side. and even with an attorney for that ex parte... did nothing. shes doing this all alone, and all she had to say was... i miss my baby, i cant be without her more than 2 days.. and im breastfeeding her.
uh, yea right... all of which are untrue. this b!tch, parties on weekends and leaves me with the baby from friday til sunday. during weekdays she randomly just leaves when she sparks up a fight, just so that she can excuse herself and leave. and she also sleeps til 1pm daily, and im the one that wakes up in the middle of the night to make bottles and feed and change baby, then i get up at 6am to watch the baby til lazy mother gets up at 1pm.
so for the person who said, courts just care who spends the most time with baby and takes care of her and watches her... well that person is clearly ME!!!!!
but its like, you dont have any proof of that. just your word against hers. and since this whole thing is going to court now. she just has to lie, and courts will grant her anything she wants. because its allllllllways male judges and they just dont want to deal with breastfeeding or mothe issues. so once she says that.... thats it. she has baby.
so if the drug thing... or lets says... semi legal weed use, or soon to be legal weed use isnt going to help my case, i guess i can only rely on my word against hers on how she really is an unfit mother and how she physically abused me and yes i do have the police report and restraining order on her. but im sure the judge will say that has nothing to do with the child.
so i guess we will see.... i do have my text messages printed out that clearly have her admitting to hitting me in the face, in front of her other two kids. but again. the judges only see it the mothers way...
but yes i have had an attorney since i knew i was going to try to get full custody. then she came back with an emergency ex parte.
which basically made us have an earlier hearing just for a judge to hear her side. and even with an attorney for that ex parte... did nothing. shes doing this all alone, and all she had to say was... i miss my baby, i cant be without her more than 2 days.. and im breastfeeding her.
uh, yea right... all of which are untrue. this b!tch, parties on weekends and leaves me with the baby from friday til sunday. during weekdays she randomly just leaves when she sparks up a fight, just so that she can excuse herself and leave. and she also sleeps til 1pm daily, and im the one that wakes up in the middle of the night to make bottles and feed and change baby, then i get up at 6am to watch the baby til lazy mother gets up at 1pm.
so for the person who said, courts just care who spends the most time with baby and takes care of her and watches her... well that person is clearly ME!!!!!
but its like, you dont have any proof of that. just your word against hers. and since this whole thing is going to court now. she just has to lie, and courts will grant her anything she wants. because its allllllllways male judges and they just dont want to deal with breastfeeding or mothe issues. so once she says that.... thats it. she has baby.
so if the drug thing... or lets says... semi legal weed use, or soon to be legal weed use isnt going to help my case, i guess i can only rely on my word against hers on how she really is an unfit mother and how she physically abused me and yes i do have the police report and restraining order on her. but im sure the judge will say that has nothing to do with the child.
so i guess we will see.... i do have my text messages printed out that clearly have her admitting to hitting me in the face, in front of her other two kids. but again. the judges only see it the mothers way...