california,
Im going to court on the 28th of this month (dec) to fight for full custody of my 3 month old child. The mother hardly ever breastfeeds, but claims to the judge that she does breastfeed fulltime. (just so she can win the baby). and it works. I cant stand that a judge will be that one sided. as if a baby cant be bottle fed with me, the father. I have been bottle feeding the baby for more than 80% of the time. and the small 20% or less that she actually does try to breastfeed, is to lose weight and/or because she is extreamly lazy and she doesnt want to get up in the middle of the night and make a bottle.
so my real question is... since i cant win my child by her lying and saying she needs baby because she breastfeeds... is. If i know she smokes marijuana at least 2-3 times a week... (mostly in front of me) in our bathroom... how can i have a judge FORCE her to take a drug test? i brought it up to the first judge and he said some B.S. that he cannot force her, that she needs to agree to take a test.
I want the judge to force her to take a hair folicle test because i know the marijuana will show up in there.
If there is suspicion of drug use.. why cant the judge force her? or can he? because i seriously want both of us to get tested. i will gladly agree to take a test. im drug free.
Also, this girl is extreamly abusive. she physically beat me to the face with a closed fist several times during one incident. and it was in front of her 2 other children. but the court acts as if there were no witnesses since the kids obviously wont tell on their low life mother.
Shes a drug abuser...
a man abuser...
doesnt feed her other kids breakfast or dinner..
she sleeps til 1pm daily...
she has no job...
she has no car...
she just got evicted from her apartment...
she doesnt breastfeed....
we have allways been giving the baby bottles..
all that, plus more... and im sure the judge will still say...50/50. This world is amazing....
just because im a man... and babies should be with their mothers... even is shes a low life.
Im going to court on the 28th of this month (dec) to fight for full custody of my 3 month old child. The mother hardly ever breastfeeds, but claims to the judge that she does breastfeed fulltime. (just so she can win the baby). and it works. I cant stand that a judge will be that one sided. as if a baby cant be bottle fed with me, the father. I have been bottle feeding the baby for more than 80% of the time. and the small 20% or less that she actually does try to breastfeed, is to lose weight and/or because she is extreamly lazy and she doesnt want to get up in the middle of the night and make a bottle.
so my real question is... since i cant win my child by her lying and saying she needs baby because she breastfeeds... is. If i know she smokes marijuana at least 2-3 times a week... (mostly in front of me) in our bathroom... how can i have a judge FORCE her to take a drug test? i brought it up to the first judge and he said some B.S. that he cannot force her, that she needs to agree to take a test.
I want the judge to force her to take a hair folicle test because i know the marijuana will show up in there.
If there is suspicion of drug use.. why cant the judge force her? or can he? because i seriously want both of us to get tested. i will gladly agree to take a test. im drug free.
Also, this girl is extreamly abusive. she physically beat me to the face with a closed fist several times during one incident. and it was in front of her 2 other children. but the court acts as if there were no witnesses since the kids obviously wont tell on their low life mother.
Shes a drug abuser...
a man abuser...
doesnt feed her other kids breakfast or dinner..
she sleeps til 1pm daily...
she has no job...
she has no car...
she just got evicted from her apartment...
she doesnt breastfeed....
we have allways been giving the baby bottles..
all that, plus more... and im sure the judge will still say...50/50. This world is amazing....
just because im a man... and babies should be with their mothers... even is shes a low life.