huvie33 said:
What is the name of your state? NY How much does having an affair affect the custody decision? Do working hours, daycare provider also affect this decision? I would like to know the main determining factors when fighting for physical custody of a young child.
Having an affair is uusually pretty irrelevant to custody.
The
primary factor is who has been the primary caregiver to the child. Working hours can be significant...for example, if the parent works second shift (full time) and the child is school aged, then its unlikely for that parent to get primary custody...because that parent would basically never be available to spend any time with the child during the school/work week.
A daycare provider is unlikely to be a factor....unless the parent is insisting on using someone that is unfit.
However, you would get much better answers if you would simply tell the story...vague questions like this don't get you good answers.
Edit: I went back and read your previous post.
The fact that your mother is the daycare provider does not give you any "edge" for custody.
The fact that mom tends to work more than 8 hours a day also does not give you any "edge" for custody, because mom can easily change that. You both basically have the same work schedule, its just that mom tends to work late.
However...since she does tend to do that you could easily get stipulations in the custody agreement that allow you to care for the child until mom gets home from work. Therefore if mom keeps up that pattern that would give you some time with the child each day...and mom time with the child each day...which is actually ideal.