If you feel you are the better parent, then make your case for it, remembering (once again) that this nasty, filthy slut bucket that runs around from man to man is the woman you slept with unprotected... so what does that make YOU?
LMAO, whoa. That was intense**************......But frankly, I do still love her and don't want to hurt her. But above all else i feel like I MUST look out for my daughter and protect her interest above my feelings about her mother. And ya, after all the dust settles I'd still do anything in the world for this girl. I don't look 'down upon her' and I'm sorry for leading anyone to believe that.
But i do STRONGLY feel that she is NOT thinking of our daughter in all of this and not looking out for her best interest (personal opinion is she's not thinking of our daughter in the least). No less than 3 weeks prior to her leaving she was discussing 'us' getting married with my grandmother**************..So I have no earthly clue what triggered all of this except possibly something psychological (not casting stones, but stating a strong opinion).
And my intent is NOT to keep our daughter away from her mother, not now or in the future. I'm FIRM believer in 2 people who love their child trying to make the best of things for their childs sake above all else! And in an ideal situation they stay together, but often times thats impossible. Is this one of those? Well, at this point, who knows.
But what I do know is that I need to ensure my daughters safety above all else and more importantly her emotional well being. And i believe that this cannot be done in this kind of household or environment. My home, care, my families care was good enough for 11 mths of my daughters life, so why not now?
Does any of this make sense? I guess I just don't know how to explain this to a judge and give him cause of action for anything. I mean ya, he'll respect me for my point of view. But he also has to do whats legal, fair and just. Reguardless right?
I mean I know that MOST people in custody disputes are P/Oed, hurt, what not and I am too, but my interest are TRULY in my daughter above all else. And once again I don't want to hurt her mother in all of this, but in my opinion I must preserve my daughters interest at any/all cost(s) and hope that one day her mother will understand. (MAYBE).