wantsittostop
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA
I do not live in CA but my papers are currently still in that state. I am the CP and my childs father has visitation. My child has expressed on serveral occasions how uncomfortable she is going to visit her father. For reasons like seeing them suck on each others tongues and making jokes of it, or them making it very clear that they are going to shower together. Either way, my child hates going there and has told the father repeatedly and he does not care. He will force her to and take her away hyper ventilating and crying. She is 10 years old and if she were able to make the decision she would never see him again. Can anyone tell me what the legal age is that the child has a say in if they want to discontinue visitation with the NCP? He has been paying child support, but i would rather him stop paying than to continue having her deal with the trauma he puts her through.
Any advice? Thanks in advance.
I do not live in CA but my papers are currently still in that state. I am the CP and my childs father has visitation. My child has expressed on serveral occasions how uncomfortable she is going to visit her father. For reasons like seeing them suck on each others tongues and making jokes of it, or them making it very clear that they are going to shower together. Either way, my child hates going there and has told the father repeatedly and he does not care. He will force her to and take her away hyper ventilating and crying. She is 10 years old and if she were able to make the decision she would never see him again. Can anyone tell me what the legal age is that the child has a say in if they want to discontinue visitation with the NCP? He has been paying child support, but i would rather him stop paying than to continue having her deal with the trauma he puts her through.
Any advice? Thanks in advance.