Our daughter made a poor choice in boyfriends a while back. She became pregnant and had a beautiful baby girl. The father is unemployed, has no credit, no driver's license and has led a hand-to-mouth existence which involved a lot of petty crime and a lot of drugs (Crystal Meth).
After we supported them for 14r months, hoping he would get his act together, my daughter could no longer stand it. She broke up with him and moved back in with us.
Through Crystal Meth use, this man's brain is severely scrambled. He has the attention span of a gnat and has held no job for more than two months at a time.
Yesterday, during a scheduled visit, so he could spend time with his daughter, he appeared in a loaned car (he has no license). He quickly became agitated and ended up abducting the baby forcibly, disappearing for 6 hours, leaving us all frantic and beside ourselves. He eventually called our house and my wife was able to coax him to bring the baby over, just as we were about to get the police involved.
I never want another night like this.
My wife and I are making an excellent living and have a beautiful, nurturing home environment for our daughter and granddaughter. We are willing to do whatever it takes and we have our daughter's approval. We are willing to sue for custody or file for adoption. Whatever it takes to cut this lunatic out of our lives. We need to know what our options are. Help???