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Hello everyone. I'm new here. Here's my situation. Any advice would be great...
I have never gone to court or had anything legally written up about my parental situation. I physically have my 8 year old daughter 3-4 nights a week. So her mom and I split time about half and half. I have now asked her mom to go to a mediator with me to have things legally written up. She refuses to go and says she just wants to write things out ourselves.
She wants a legal 60/40 split in her favor. Is there such a thing? Can you just make up any kind of split you want? She refuses to have it be legally written as 50/50 even though I have our daughter half the time. Is this an important difference (50/50 vs. 60/40)?
Also, I pay for healthcare and pay $500 a month child support. These have not been ordered by a court, I just do it. We were never married either. I am now getting married in a couple of months to someone else and want everything to be legal and set. I make about $30,000 a year and my ex lives on student loans and family support. She's a full-time student. Is what i'm paying fair? Is 60/40 custody good enough? Or do I need to fight for 50/50?
Also, after I'm married in December, will my wife's income and assets come into play as far as child support goes? Or is she left out completely?
Please help!
Hello everyone. I'm new here. Here's my situation. Any advice would be great...
I have never gone to court or had anything legally written up about my parental situation. I physically have my 8 year old daughter 3-4 nights a week. So her mom and I split time about half and half. I have now asked her mom to go to a mediator with me to have things legally written up. She refuses to go and says she just wants to write things out ourselves.
She wants a legal 60/40 split in her favor. Is there such a thing? Can you just make up any kind of split you want? She refuses to have it be legally written as 50/50 even though I have our daughter half the time. Is this an important difference (50/50 vs. 60/40)?
Also, I pay for healthcare and pay $500 a month child support. These have not been ordered by a court, I just do it. We were never married either. I am now getting married in a couple of months to someone else and want everything to be legal and set. I make about $30,000 a year and my ex lives on student loans and family support. She's a full-time student. Is what i'm paying fair? Is 60/40 custody good enough? Or do I need to fight for 50/50?
Also, after I'm married in December, will my wife's income and assets come into play as far as child support goes? Or is she left out completely?
Please help!