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weyer4
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What is the name of your state? oregon
my husband's ex-wife served him papers on new years eve. currently they have shared custody where his daughter should be with her mom every other week and with him every other week. when he was alone, his work schedule required his daughter to be in child care so him and his ex came up with an idea that his daughter stay with her mom while he worked, with the full understanding that the divorce agreement would be returned to normal after his work slowed back down. she refused and still refuses to let him have his daughter when he should, in fact we are only allowed to have her on weekends or when her mom and her husband go on one of many vacations throughout the school year. his daughter came to me and asked me to talk with her mom about going by the agreement because me and her mom got along at that point. well when i did, her mom blew a gasket and instantly her and her husband threatened us with attorneys. we did not take it any further as we did not want to put trisha through this garbage. well now her mom is going for full custody, child support, and everything else she can get her hands on. the paperwork she served states that i am in the wrong in everthing i do. well it was all right for me to do all these things when me and the mom got along, but now that i asked her to let trisha spend more time with her dad, well, this is what we get. everything in the paperwork is about me other then 1 sentence claiming my husband plays the computer too much. does she really have grounds to do this because she doesnt like me? and trisha will be 12 in july, will she be able to speak with the judge? she wants to live with her dad because "we are easier to talk to, and she gets along with us".
please help
my husband's ex-wife served him papers on new years eve. currently they have shared custody where his daughter should be with her mom every other week and with him every other week. when he was alone, his work schedule required his daughter to be in child care so him and his ex came up with an idea that his daughter stay with her mom while he worked, with the full understanding that the divorce agreement would be returned to normal after his work slowed back down. she refused and still refuses to let him have his daughter when he should, in fact we are only allowed to have her on weekends or when her mom and her husband go on one of many vacations throughout the school year. his daughter came to me and asked me to talk with her mom about going by the agreement because me and her mom got along at that point. well when i did, her mom blew a gasket and instantly her and her husband threatened us with attorneys. we did not take it any further as we did not want to put trisha through this garbage. well now her mom is going for full custody, child support, and everything else she can get her hands on. the paperwork she served states that i am in the wrong in everthing i do. well it was all right for me to do all these things when me and the mom got along, but now that i asked her to let trisha spend more time with her dad, well, this is what we get. everything in the paperwork is about me other then 1 sentence claiming my husband plays the computer too much. does she really have grounds to do this because she doesnt like me? and trisha will be 12 in july, will she be able to speak with the judge? she wants to live with her dad because "we are easier to talk to, and she gets along with us".
please help