What is the name of your state? Va Long story short. Husband of 18 years having an affair, drained over $18,000 out of accounts, etc. He was arrested for family abuse, felony possession and brandishing, emergency protective order issued, was removed so he could visit the kids.
I filed for custody/visitation, child/spousal support. Judge told him the kids were old enough (15 and 16) to decide when and if they wanted to see him. Original agreement states he could call the kids once a day and when and if they wanted to see him, they would call him. I had to be present when he was here.
He comes and goes as he pleases, says his attorney said he has every right to have complete access to the house and kids. He calls the house several times a day and calls me at work several times a day. Told me that I had better have the kids here when he comes over or he'll call the sheriff. Problem is, we never know when he's going to show up.
In the court papers it reads that he has "liberal" visitation. What does that mean? Do we have to put our lives on hold because he could decide he want to come here? Does he have the right to continue to call several times a day and come here when he wants? If he shows up and the kids aren't here he says he is going to call the sheriff and tell them I am keeping him from seeing the kids.
Please, any advice or info on this would be greatly appreciated.
I filed for custody/visitation, child/spousal support. Judge told him the kids were old enough (15 and 16) to decide when and if they wanted to see him. Original agreement states he could call the kids once a day and when and if they wanted to see him, they would call him. I had to be present when he was here.
He comes and goes as he pleases, says his attorney said he has every right to have complete access to the house and kids. He calls the house several times a day and calls me at work several times a day. Told me that I had better have the kids here when he comes over or he'll call the sheriff. Problem is, we never know when he's going to show up.
In the court papers it reads that he has "liberal" visitation. What does that mean? Do we have to put our lives on hold because he could decide he want to come here? Does he have the right to continue to call several times a day and come here when he wants? If he shows up and the kids aren't here he says he is going to call the sheriff and tell them I am keeping him from seeing the kids.
Please, any advice or info on this would be greatly appreciated.