Silverplum
Senior Member
You are commenting on a legal site: the FACT is that the child's ~feelings~ will NOT be "taken into consideration."I agree that the child's feelings need to be taken into consideration. 6 years of not seeing dad and just phone calls and now out of the blue wanting him to come stay with a father he has only had a phone relationship with would be hard. Could dad come to you at least 1 time and spend some time with him before the long stretch. Might put every ones mind at ease. Or you take him out there to see him before then. Be careful not to influence your son when trying to be empathetic and a evaluation by a counselor might not hurt it would be a neutral party to help him deal with everything and could give recommendations if you guys end up back in court for a modification. Good luck!
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