What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? AZ
My son's father moved away from AZ six yeas ago with his address unknown. The parenting agreement states that the father will visit AZ each year and spend two weeks of parenting time until the child turns 10 and then at that time our child will visit him in Atlanta. Well, that was six years ago and he has never visited once. He may call every three weeks and speak to our son on the phone for 2 minutes or so but he has not seen our child in six years. Our child is now 11 and his father wants him to visit him in Atlanta. Our son absolutely does not want to go, especially for two weeks. Our son did state that if he has to see his father, he would prefer for him to come to AZ. Basically at this point our son is not concerned with his father and I even have to force him to return his father's phone calls. My son's father feels our son not visiting him in Atlanta is unreasonable.
In addition, finances has never been an issue for him. He has an excellent paying job to afford several tickets to have visited AZ.
If this situation were to go back to court, what say does our son have, especially since his father did not hold up his end of the parenting plan for six years? Would a judge suggest the father establish a relationship by him visiting in AZ first before allowing our son to go to Atlanta for two weeks of visitation time with someone he basically does not know?
My son's father moved away from AZ six yeas ago with his address unknown. The parenting agreement states that the father will visit AZ each year and spend two weeks of parenting time until the child turns 10 and then at that time our child will visit him in Atlanta. Well, that was six years ago and he has never visited once. He may call every three weeks and speak to our son on the phone for 2 minutes or so but he has not seen our child in six years. Our child is now 11 and his father wants him to visit him in Atlanta. Our son absolutely does not want to go, especially for two weeks. Our son did state that if he has to see his father, he would prefer for him to come to AZ. Basically at this point our son is not concerned with his father and I even have to force him to return his father's phone calls. My son's father feels our son not visiting him in Atlanta is unreasonable.
In addition, finances has never been an issue for him. He has an excellent paying job to afford several tickets to have visited AZ.
If this situation were to go back to court, what say does our son have, especially since his father did not hold up his end of the parenting plan for six years? Would a judge suggest the father establish a relationship by him visiting in AZ first before allowing our son to go to Atlanta for two weeks of visitation time with someone he basically does not know?