What is the name of your state? North Carolina- My ex made false accusations against me and got his lawyer to serve me with a ex parte order, for Aug.15th Everyone showed up for this hearing accept his lawyer. The judge waited as long as he could for my ex's lawyer to show up but she never did. The judge granted a contunience until Sept. 12th. Can I use the fact that his own lawyer didn't show up for this ex parte hearing to my advantage when we go to court Monday. Is there a time limit that a ex parte order expire? I thought that a ex parte order is a emergiency order to have a child remove from a home asap. I still have my daughter with me to this day. Whats up with this?