stepmomwows
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What is the name of your state? IL
My husband is in the military. we are curently stationed in colorado. while his daughter was visiting here for spring break we learned lots of information... my step daughter told us that if she gives out information her mother spanks her... also if the mother gets mad the mother shakes her daughter (shes 8) the child shares a room with four other children 1 being a boy and my stepdaughter has already showed sexual behavior in yhe past. also my step daughter said the aunt with whom they live slapped her because the child did not put away things to the aunts likeing.. lastly the child still had a temporary filling in her tooth from last year when we had the child also there was still decay in another tooth known issues from last april.
1. is this enough to will cutody?
2.will his military status be a factor?
3. would us being married in a 2 bedroom with only ourselves and my 6 month old son show us to be stable enough??
My husband is in the military. we are curently stationed in colorado. while his daughter was visiting here for spring break we learned lots of information... my step daughter told us that if she gives out information her mother spanks her... also if the mother gets mad the mother shakes her daughter (shes 8) the child shares a room with four other children 1 being a boy and my stepdaughter has already showed sexual behavior in yhe past. also my step daughter said the aunt with whom they live slapped her because the child did not put away things to the aunts likeing.. lastly the child still had a temporary filling in her tooth from last year when we had the child also there was still decay in another tooth known issues from last april.
1. is this enough to will cutody?
2.will his military status be a factor?
3. would us being married in a 2 bedroom with only ourselves and my 6 month old son show us to be stable enough??