this happens to my 2 older boys every other weekend and every wednesday. i never KNOW exactly where they are. but i do KNOW they are with their dad. guess what? i had to get OVER IT!yes, I'm so damn strict because I expect my wife to let me know WHERE and WHEN my daughter is coming home. I can see your pointless comments if this was just a woman leaving for the day without permission, but this has to deal with taking a daughter that the father watches every single day of his life and he wakes up to find that they still aren't home 48 hrs. give me a break, just be thankful this has never happened to your child (which I'm sure you don't have) because you have no clue how much it kills inside to not know where your daughter is. it's called being a loving parent not a control freak
it also happens to my 1.5 year old and my 6 mos old. THEY ARE WITH THE OTHER PARENT!!
neither one of the fathers have to tell me their plans. and i don't ask. do i miss them?? YES!! and i always hope for their safe return. do i worry, YES! but that doesn't give me the right to control another person who has just as much legal right to my children as i do.