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What is the name of your state? ND
I am AD military. My husband is the civilian. He pays child support to a witch and the spawn that just goes to beer and new cars but that's not the point of my post.
I am 90% sure my next duty station will be overseas. There is NO way he'll be able to find a job over there that pays what he makes here, if he can find a job at all (depending on where duty station is of course).
Does anyone know how that works? Will he have to petition court when I get orders saying "Hey, I'm not going to have a job and if I get one, who knows when that will be?" There is NO way that I would pay his child support, couldn't afford it since I'm not getting child support from my ex for daughter; money is too tight as it is.
Military legal here doesn't seem to knowledgable on these things. Where can I go to find something out?
Oh, and so I don't get on anyone's "bad" side--I know it is my husbands responsibility to pay, not saying he shouldn't but I do feel that the states need to have more control over the money. We see $600 a month go to everything but the kid, getting visitation is a constant battle, and it's just such a headache for both of us...
I am AD military. My husband is the civilian. He pays child support to a witch and the spawn that just goes to beer and new cars but that's not the point of my post.
I am 90% sure my next duty station will be overseas. There is NO way he'll be able to find a job over there that pays what he makes here, if he can find a job at all (depending on where duty station is of course).
Does anyone know how that works? Will he have to petition court when I get orders saying "Hey, I'm not going to have a job and if I get one, who knows when that will be?" There is NO way that I would pay his child support, couldn't afford it since I'm not getting child support from my ex for daughter; money is too tight as it is.
Military legal here doesn't seem to knowledgable on these things. Where can I go to find something out?
Oh, and so I don't get on anyone's "bad" side--I know it is my husbands responsibility to pay, not saying he shouldn't but I do feel that the states need to have more control over the money. We see $600 a month go to everything but the kid, getting visitation is a constant battle, and it's just such a headache for both of us...