What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia
My ex wife has full custody of our 8 year old son. I pay $146 a week for my 2 kids (to 2 different mothers). 2 Weeks ago my ex wife called me and said that she can not afford to support her and our child anymore. Oh and to make this whole scenrio sound anymore crazy...my ex wife is a stripper at a gentlemens club in Richmond and receives food stamps claiming she doesn't make enough money. So, she took him out of Richmond schools and sent our son to live with me and I enrolled him in Prince George Elementary School. So that is proof that he now lives with me. It doesn't bother me that she is still receiving food stamps all the while she is claiming to the state that she is reporting that she supports our son still. What bothers me is all I have asked her to pay is the day care that watches him till I get off work. It's $75 a week, which is about what comes straight out of my paycheck a week and given to her. She is 2 weeks behind and now I have to pay it just so he can stay in daycare. I want to try and get partial or full custody of my son now that he lives with me. Also, since she is not keeping her part of the bargain that we had made I want to stop the child support payments from coming out of my check. Someone told me about an emergency abandonment order I could file because she is technically not taking care of our son.
She is a stripper and I know she makes over $1000 a week. Although she has always had full custody of him I have always gotten him every weekend and still paid her full child support. I feel like she has cheated me and the system for to long. Expecially since our son lives with me now. What should I do?
My ex wife has full custody of our 8 year old son. I pay $146 a week for my 2 kids (to 2 different mothers). 2 Weeks ago my ex wife called me and said that she can not afford to support her and our child anymore. Oh and to make this whole scenrio sound anymore crazy...my ex wife is a stripper at a gentlemens club in Richmond and receives food stamps claiming she doesn't make enough money. So, she took him out of Richmond schools and sent our son to live with me and I enrolled him in Prince George Elementary School. So that is proof that he now lives with me. It doesn't bother me that she is still receiving food stamps all the while she is claiming to the state that she is reporting that she supports our son still. What bothers me is all I have asked her to pay is the day care that watches him till I get off work. It's $75 a week, which is about what comes straight out of my paycheck a week and given to her. She is 2 weeks behind and now I have to pay it just so he can stay in daycare. I want to try and get partial or full custody of my son now that he lives with me. Also, since she is not keeping her part of the bargain that we had made I want to stop the child support payments from coming out of my check. Someone told me about an emergency abandonment order I could file because she is technically not taking care of our son.
She is a stripper and I know she makes over $1000 a week. Although she has always had full custody of him I have always gotten him every weekend and still paid her full child support. I feel like she has cheated me and the system for to long. Expecially since our son lives with me now. What should I do?