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I live in Indiana, have a boy 14 and a girl 11. They both want to live with me and have since our divorce 5 years ago. Three years ago I requested a modification of custody. We had a two day hearing which ended up being a waste of time and money, as the judge determined that I didn't prove substantial change of circumstances. The kids were and are very disappointed. Now I have filed for custody of my son, by his strong request. Since he is 14 some people tell me that all but guarantees the judge will grant the request. Is this true? I am getting ready to pay about $2000 in retainers and mediator fees, and I'm sure that figure will double before this is over. I cannot afford to lose this, for my son's emotional welbeing and the fact it will be most all of my money. How much does "more consideration to the childs wishes at age 14" mean?