What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Oregon
I am in the process of divorcing my husband and he recently decided he should be the primary care provider for our 2 yr. old.
I was previously a stay-at-home mom, but now I work from home and have consistently paying all my bills since he left. There's no reason why our child should stay with a 3rd party all week while I'm home. I was advised to get a restraining order when he took my daughter to his parents and refused to give her back. I had to call the police to get him to agree to a trial joint custody. But ultimately I was too afraid of what he and his family might do and decided against the restraining order. I'm kicking myself for it now.
A few facts:
Our child was born out of wedlock.
I have evidence via chat transcripts showing him lying about our child's injuries.
I have evidence via chat transcripts showing him refusing to tell me the doctor she's seen.
He works full time and makes much more money than I do.
His entire argument is that I'm an unfit parent. But he's consistently shown that he's mounting an aggressive campaign to paint me in a bad light. He's already demonstrated that he's willing to take my child away, lie about injuries, and has no respect for me as a parent. How can I joint parent with someone who treats me this way?
I want full custody of my child without visitation. But I don't know if I have a strong enough case against him to enforce that.
I am in the process of divorcing my husband and he recently decided he should be the primary care provider for our 2 yr. old.
I was previously a stay-at-home mom, but now I work from home and have consistently paying all my bills since he left. There's no reason why our child should stay with a 3rd party all week while I'm home. I was advised to get a restraining order when he took my daughter to his parents and refused to give her back. I had to call the police to get him to agree to a trial joint custody. But ultimately I was too afraid of what he and his family might do and decided against the restraining order. I'm kicking myself for it now.
A few facts:
Our child was born out of wedlock.
I have evidence via chat transcripts showing him lying about our child's injuries.
I have evidence via chat transcripts showing him refusing to tell me the doctor she's seen.
He works full time and makes much more money than I do.
His entire argument is that I'm an unfit parent. But he's consistently shown that he's mounting an aggressive campaign to paint me in a bad light. He's already demonstrated that he's willing to take my child away, lie about injuries, and has no respect for me as a parent. How can I joint parent with someone who treats me this way?
I want full custody of my child without visitation. But I don't know if I have a strong enough case against him to enforce that.