What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Alabama
Community,
I recently got married this year to my husband who is an Army officer. We were living in Florida at the time and I have a 2 year old daughter from another relationship. My ex and I were never married and we broke up when my daughter was 8 months old. He never gave me any money for my child and always fought with me on watching her. His name is on the birth certificate. My husband had orders to go to Alabama and since we got married, I went with him with my daughter. I told my ex and he gave me a hard time about it. We left and he threatened me by calling the police and calling DCF. I went to see a lawyer on post and she had told me that I needed to wait 6 months before my child would be considered a legal resident of Alabama before I could start a petition for full custody. She also told me that I had no obligations of speaking to him and that I could change my number if I wanted to. My ex has made no attempts to come up here but has been calling me and texting me. I am afraid to start a case because I do not want him to take my child because I know he will try and I will never see her again. Can anyone please give me advice on whether I should start a case or wait and see if he will (which I do not think because he has no job)?
Alabama
Community,
I recently got married this year to my husband who is an Army officer. We were living in Florida at the time and I have a 2 year old daughter from another relationship. My ex and I were never married and we broke up when my daughter was 8 months old. He never gave me any money for my child and always fought with me on watching her. His name is on the birth certificate. My husband had orders to go to Alabama and since we got married, I went with him with my daughter. I told my ex and he gave me a hard time about it. We left and he threatened me by calling the police and calling DCF. I went to see a lawyer on post and she had told me that I needed to wait 6 months before my child would be considered a legal resident of Alabama before I could start a petition for full custody. She also told me that I had no obligations of speaking to him and that I could change my number if I wanted to. My ex has made no attempts to come up here but has been calling me and texting me. I am afraid to start a case because I do not want him to take my child because I know he will try and I will never see her again. Can anyone please give me advice on whether I should start a case or wait and see if he will (which I do not think because he has no job)?