3i1bo3aggins
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California.
I would like to know what the best play is for me to get/work my way up to 50% custody (I'm dad). We were not married and split up about 2 months after my now 4 week old boy was concieved. Mom would not let me to go prenatal appointments, she did let me in the delivery room after birth and I have seen him as much as possible. It was 4 hours 4 days a week. But she is a pill and picks a fight about everything and wants it down to 3 days 3 hours in her home.
She would not allow me on the birth certificate.
I just launched my own business which isn't making a lot of money and she is a high school teacher. She essentially can stay with him the first 6 months full time. My mom runs a legal services website for child support and advised me that I would stand my best chance in court at the 6th month mark. When hopefully my business will be making money and she has to return to work. As of now the child's mom is pretty uncooperative. She refuseso to pump so that I can have time away from her place and says baby is too young to spend time away. She's already said she will fight me on custody every step of the way. She basically having her way would only allow me to visit him at her place when it's convenient for her.
I have taken a DNA test and confirmed i am the father. How should i play this so that i can get the maximum time?
Neither she nor I have any intention of asking the other for child support. I have brought over diapers and things but half the time she makes me take it back cause she doesn't want anything from me.
I am worried that with a new job/business and no money if I go now I could be shooting myself in the foot, but what do you all advise?
I would like to know what the best play is for me to get/work my way up to 50% custody (I'm dad). We were not married and split up about 2 months after my now 4 week old boy was concieved. Mom would not let me to go prenatal appointments, she did let me in the delivery room after birth and I have seen him as much as possible. It was 4 hours 4 days a week. But she is a pill and picks a fight about everything and wants it down to 3 days 3 hours in her home.
She would not allow me on the birth certificate.
I just launched my own business which isn't making a lot of money and she is a high school teacher. She essentially can stay with him the first 6 months full time. My mom runs a legal services website for child support and advised me that I would stand my best chance in court at the 6th month mark. When hopefully my business will be making money and she has to return to work. As of now the child's mom is pretty uncooperative. She refuseso to pump so that I can have time away from her place and says baby is too young to spend time away. She's already said she will fight me on custody every step of the way. She basically having her way would only allow me to visit him at her place when it's convenient for her.
I have taken a DNA test and confirmed i am the father. How should i play this so that i can get the maximum time?
Neither she nor I have any intention of asking the other for child support. I have brought over diapers and things but half the time she makes me take it back cause she doesn't want anything from me.
I am worried that with a new job/business and no money if I go now I could be shooting myself in the foot, but what do you all advise?
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