I got this order from the Office of the Attorney General at the same time I signed up for child support. At that time we were still living together and things weren't terribly bad. The only reason we had signed up for this/child support to begin with is because we needed the child care help and CCS here requires all unmarried parents to open a child support case to be eligible for child care support.
So, I've had the order since 2011. Last year, when we weren't together anymore we worked with each other for the most part. We shared the holidays.
"It is ordered that the parents may have possession of the child at any and all times mutually agreed to in advance and, in the absence of mutual agreement, it is order that they shall have possession of the child as follows:" and then it lists the specifics times, which I've already listed the relevant ones in this case.
This year, we can't even hardly talk to each other anymore and have just been following what the order says. So neither of us had followed this order before this year.