AshleyCalvin
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Tennessee
I want to gain custody of my younger 1/2 sibling, I am 27 she is 12. Her parents have split custody, both are adidcts to pain pills and her father smokes pot.
My sister is complety ignored by father for all concerns that matter.. school, doctor visits, dentists. Shes been held back before and shes now failing the 6th grade. No one helps her with homework, no one holds her accountable, shes online on her cell phone talking to boys (much older than her), and on top of all that her father has awful anger issues, he screams and yells and talks down to her often. He a control freak that wont let her come and stay with me, I live down the street from them. I try as much as I can to help. I tried to sign her up for after school help, and he called me screaming that it was his daughter and I wasn't allowed to do things of that nature. Our mother isn't in the picture, she has no job, no car, no home and she takes her prescription pills at a furious rate until shes pratically sedated. The cops have been to the home at least 6 times in a year, where they live with his elderly father also on pain pills, his girl friend and her 3 kids in a two bedroom house. The calls are usually because for domestic dispute because he and his girlfriend are arguing. No one cares for her, no one is on her team, I want to be there for her and show her that people don't live like this and that I care. Show her love and understanding and get her away from the daily drama that is her life. Also all of the children witnesed him beat their dog with a metal pole... not to death but until his girl friend stopped him. I need help and answers of what to do next. I am also worried that I wont gain custody adn then he unables me to see her. Or that he may do somthing to my animals.. as they are across the street from him. I have two horses and am scared for their safty if I gain custody. This week DCHS was called on them and he has avoided them, they drug tested the girlfriend and she failed for pot. However its been 3-4 days and he is supposed to go to their office tomorrow to take a drug test. I am not sure what my next move is.
any advice will be appreciated
Thank You
Ashley
I want to gain custody of my younger 1/2 sibling, I am 27 she is 12. Her parents have split custody, both are adidcts to pain pills and her father smokes pot.
My sister is complety ignored by father for all concerns that matter.. school, doctor visits, dentists. Shes been held back before and shes now failing the 6th grade. No one helps her with homework, no one holds her accountable, shes online on her cell phone talking to boys (much older than her), and on top of all that her father has awful anger issues, he screams and yells and talks down to her often. He a control freak that wont let her come and stay with me, I live down the street from them. I try as much as I can to help. I tried to sign her up for after school help, and he called me screaming that it was his daughter and I wasn't allowed to do things of that nature. Our mother isn't in the picture, she has no job, no car, no home and she takes her prescription pills at a furious rate until shes pratically sedated. The cops have been to the home at least 6 times in a year, where they live with his elderly father also on pain pills, his girl friend and her 3 kids in a two bedroom house. The calls are usually because for domestic dispute because he and his girlfriend are arguing. No one cares for her, no one is on her team, I want to be there for her and show her that people don't live like this and that I care. Show her love and understanding and get her away from the daily drama that is her life. Also all of the children witnesed him beat their dog with a metal pole... not to death but until his girl friend stopped him. I need help and answers of what to do next. I am also worried that I wont gain custody adn then he unables me to see her. Or that he may do somthing to my animals.. as they are across the street from him. I have two horses and am scared for their safty if I gain custody. This week DCHS was called on them and he has avoided them, they drug tested the girlfriend and she failed for pot. However its been 3-4 days and he is supposed to go to their office tomorrow to take a drug test. I am not sure what my next move is.
any advice will be appreciated
Thank You
Ashley