i live in California and I messed around with my ex and almost a year later tells me I have a son she gave birth to and he is 3 months she also included and told me that I could give up my parents rights but it was going to be done the right way through court she's saying she wants no money from me, I am really lost and this is crazy because I didn't expect it and I do want to give my parental rights up as she's telling me then go to court but I'm skeptical how the process is , does this mean her dad or mother adopt the child? For me to give up my rights or is it better to not just go to court and leave as is unless something does come up