The court order states that you meet with a mediator "at the beginning of October".
This is not part of a conditional statement in the order: it does not state "If [Dad does whatever Mom thinks he should do], then at the beginning of October..."
There is no reference in what you have quoted to the magic number 4: it does not state "After 4 overnights have been completed, then a meeting will be scheduled [ASAP] with the mediator."
While you might have *intended* for there to b e 4 overnights before meeting with the mediator, that is not what your order, as presented states.
Meet with the mediator in October. Early October. Meaning sometime next week.