kahlan2000
Junior Member
I am in New Mexico. I am the mother and I have primary custody. I have custody orders saying that my ex, the dad, can pick my kids up from school as long as he texts/calls to let me know and I cannot pick up the children if he is planning on picking them up, he is to drop them off with me by 5:30, after I get off work. I recently went back to court to fight this order because on many occasions he was not notifying me as court ordered. In court, he told the judge it was all by accident and he would start notifying me so there was nothing done to change the order and he was not held in contempt of court. He has since been informing me when he is picking up the children. My problem/question is this. He is not required to give me any advance notice that he is picking up the children and if he doesn't pick them up I must pick them up from school. This causes alot of problems since I never know ahead of time if I need to pick up the children, I can never make any plans. I am also worried that my children will end up being left at school because of this arrangement. I am wondering if there is any kind of law that states that one parent must be responsible for picking up the children. Another complication to this is that my ex is a police officer. He cannot be the one responsible for picking up the children all the time as he may be on an emergency call. I am also worried that since he is a police officer he will be quick to call CPS on me if something happens and the children are left at school. This is a terrible custody order and it puts me in a bad situation where I feel like I am at the mercy of my ex-husband.
Thanks in advance, Stacey.
Thanks in advance, Stacey.