MyKidsMyHeart
Junior Member
I live in Michigan. I have a unique situation that involves my daughter. I think it would be easier to explain this from the very beginning. I was a Military wife of about 8 years and stationed in Germany with my husband and our 2 children. My husband and I had a legal separation drawn up around February 1997. I proceeded to move back to the United States a few weeks later on March 10, 1997. I eventually moved back to Germany in June of 1997. Due to financial hardships. During this time of being away, I learned I was pregnant. My husband moved into the Military Barracks a few months later. He was present at the birth, since he was my sponsor and being overseas I needed a sponsor, also; we were legally married still. My daughter was born in November 1997. I moved back to the United States on June 1, 1998. I immediately moved in with my daughters biological father on June 9th, 1998. My divorce was final in July 2001 due to my ex husband still being overseas and other various reasons. I still kept up residence with my child and her biological father all this time. The biological father and I married 2 months later in Sept. 2001. My ex husband would see my daughter a few times when he had visitation with my older 2 children that belong to him. We tried the blended family things so she wouldnt feel left out. He sometimes took her when he took the older 2 children. He never paid child support for her even though legally he was shown as her father. In August of 2004 my current husband and biological father of my daughter and I wanted to finally give him the legal rights to our daughter. We wanted to amend her birth certificate and to change her last name. We had a legal paternity test done through a company recommended by the Friend of the Court. Now, my exhusband says he will not let the biological father gain his legal rights without a fight. He says he will hire a big lawyer to stop him from taking his legal right. He said he got attached to her and he wanted to keep his legal rights to guarantee that he gets vistation. But he has also said that he wants to keep that biological father from gaining his rights because of spite. Does anyone have any idea if he can stop the process of my daughters biological father from getting any legal rights even though he was in her home with her and her mother since she was 6 months old?