What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Minnesota
My son is 12 1\2 and has never had unsupervised visits with his dad. Now the judge ordered it unsupervised and said in the order that "police will assist to ensure that the child be removed from my vehicle to his father's". I had this happen today when my son was unwilling to get out of the car. Brief history: My ex molested my now 19 year old at the age of 13 to 15. Charges were filed then dismissed due to her age. At least that is what they tell me. Now the judge goes from super to unsupervised visits. Even though the County determined that ABUSE did occur! Up to this point my ex would scream and threaten me in front of our son. He had me served with an HRO right in front of him, he then yelled that I ran him over..and it goes on. This has been a bad experience for my son and all I want is to keep him safe, happy and shelter him from all these bad happenings. Judge ruled in his favor 1 week ago, because he lied in court to say I had not been showing up for court and now I have to go back for a contempt charge. Yet I have documentation and ICR Reports to prove I was where I was suppose to be and in fact he has not shown up for 4 months. When I got served it was untimely service, legal aid would not help me so I hired my previous legal aid atty for a $500 retainer. We did not get our paperwork in on time and Judge did not listen to our testimony at all. I was so unfairly treated at the hearing. Yet She is the Judge who signed the papers in an untimely fashion. My ex made it sound like I only showed up for 2 visits, yet I will prove him wrong come April13. What can I do until then? Has anyone ever heard of having police handcuff a 12 year old to get him out of a car to go on a visit with a dad who keeps yelling at him and his mother?
My son is 12 1\2 and has never had unsupervised visits with his dad. Now the judge ordered it unsupervised and said in the order that "police will assist to ensure that the child be removed from my vehicle to his father's". I had this happen today when my son was unwilling to get out of the car. Brief history: My ex molested my now 19 year old at the age of 13 to 15. Charges were filed then dismissed due to her age. At least that is what they tell me. Now the judge goes from super to unsupervised visits. Even though the County determined that ABUSE did occur! Up to this point my ex would scream and threaten me in front of our son. He had me served with an HRO right in front of him, he then yelled that I ran him over..and it goes on. This has been a bad experience for my son and all I want is to keep him safe, happy and shelter him from all these bad happenings. Judge ruled in his favor 1 week ago, because he lied in court to say I had not been showing up for court and now I have to go back for a contempt charge. Yet I have documentation and ICR Reports to prove I was where I was suppose to be and in fact he has not shown up for 4 months. When I got served it was untimely service, legal aid would not help me so I hired my previous legal aid atty for a $500 retainer. We did not get our paperwork in on time and Judge did not listen to our testimony at all. I was so unfairly treated at the hearing. Yet She is the Judge who signed the papers in an untimely fashion. My ex made it sound like I only showed up for 2 visits, yet I will prove him wrong come April13. What can I do until then? Has anyone ever heard of having police handcuff a 12 year old to get him out of a car to go on a visit with a dad who keeps yelling at him and his mother?