stealth2 said:
Actually, IAAL, I was thinking about in in other terms. Mom can make it an issue if she likes. By doing so, she could drag the custody hearings out by a significant amount of time - costing OP a fair chunk of change. And his indiscretion by posting photos of himself isn't likely to gain him a huge "atta boy" from the judge. Unless, of course, the judge indulges as well.
My response:
Ladies, ladies, ladies! Please! Your sense and sensibilities are irrelevant in law, and have no place in Calfornia.
This is California we're talking about, remember? This is not some Bible Thumping, corn State!
Also remember, this is my practice area. I represent, and have over the many years, represented strippers, and pornographers, both men and women alike - - all of whom are parents.
The issue of their professions, or their extracurricular activities, wouldn't even make it to trial. There would be no "dragging out" of anything - - unless there's proof of something illegitimate.
There is nothing illegal about having your nude photos, or your "activities", posted to the Internet. In California, it's a
non-issue. In other words, there is NOTHING in our writer's post that would indicate that doing whatever the hell he's doing would make him less of a parent, or worse, need to be placed on restrictive visitation. It just won't happen in this State. Like I said, such activities would not make it to trial. And, if some pro-se litigant did make an issue of this "issue" at trial, the most you'll get from a judge is a "yawn", and a terse, "Next issue!!"
Thanks for the laugh!
IAAL