Would it make you feel better if CC stated that mom would have to pump PART of the time or put the child on formula part of the time?
The point is that breastfeeding is NOT going to prevent dad from getting overnights OR having custody of his child. If feeding from a nipple was the determining factor then the nearest dairy cows would be shoo ins for custody of all children. As it is, breastfeeding does NOT matter -- if you want the child to have breastmilk then you can pump and send it.
Parents should remember 3 things: Love your kids more than you hate your ex; when you have children the relationship with the other parent is until death; your children determine what type of nursing home you end up in.
Nothing stated by me should be taken as giving you legal advice or forming an attorney/client relationship.
Attorney-GAL in Ohio.
I've removed the knife from my back, polished it, and will one day return it -- long after you think I have forgotten.